Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Where's that book, again?

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Mmmkay, so many of you who know me have heard tell of this book that I've described as science fiction. (I hate to admit it, but I think it technically has more magic than technology in it which makes it fantasy, but I'm committed now, so I'll continue to incorrectly refer to it as science ficiton. Don't hate.) I have a manuscript. I need to revise the manuscript because it is not happy. Unfortunately, as is the way of writers, I have been dealing with some personal 'ish during the time period I should have spent the most time revising.

So, if you like what I tend to put out there and want me to keep doing it, first, thank you! Second, light a candle, say a prayer, send good juju. I need all the positive vibes I can get.

Next week is the 2018 Pikes Peak Writers Conference. I feel grossly underprepared, but I look forward to greeting all attendees as the friendly registration desk coordinator.

It has been a long 12 months since the 2017 Jubilee edition of the conference. Some key people are no longer with us. Some have moved on to another dimension and others have brought joy to the organization by exiting stage left. On a journey, it's easy to lose track of the fact that the destination is just part of it. Wherever you are, that's truly where you are, and that's what matters. Soak up the here and now, and let the path emerge.

If only the rest of my edits would magically emerge.

Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Classic Book Thoughts: Three Reasons to Read Great Expectations

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Conference time is almost upon us. Every year, agents and editors caution writers against focusing too much on the classics because "everyone" has read those and they're not current. While it's true that classics have nothing to do with the current market, I don't think it's true that "everyone" has read them. Dickens has a way of scaring people off because his books are so long. In the case of Great Expectations, it's also hard to tell, um, what to expect based on the title. (Sorry, I know. I couldn't resist.)

Great Expectations is a long book and I think it's worth the time to read. That's why I'm going to keep this post as short as possible and provide the three reasons why I think everyone should read this book.

Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Short Stories for People Who Hate Short Stories

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A lot of people have told me they don't like short stories and I think this is sad since so many terrific works of fiction are short stories. Take a leap of faith with me and try a few of these out for free.

Thursday, February 15, 2018

Late Night Valentine's Day Wishes

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Please know that you are loved for reading my blog. It means a lot to me to know that someone out there who isn't my mother takes the time to read my ramblings on books and writing, and I appreciate it since the whole point of putting this out here is to share it. Of course, some weeks, it's easy to think of things to share, and other weeks, it's a lot more difficult.

As I drove around Denver today, dealing with my own emotional garbage surrounding V-Day, I thought of a few of my favorite YA books that also happen to make terrific reads for Valentine's Day. So if you haven't had a chance to read these, give 'em a shot:

The Sky is Everywhere by Jandy Nelson
A poetic journey (but not in verse!) of a teenager's journey from dark depression to life-affirming first love set in an idyllic fantasy place in Northern California.

Other Words for Love by Lorraine Zago Rosenthal
Ari, a sensitive and beautiful artist from a working-class family learns the hard way that money can buy swimming pools and expensive prep school education, but it doesn't buy a soul.

The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
Hazel Grace finds love and hope in a totally unexpected place: a support group for dying kids.

Why We Broke Up by Daniel Handler
Every break-up truly does start with a great love story, and this one doesn't disappoint. It's chockful of vintage finds, and whatnot.

I hope that you got what you needed this Valentine's Day whether it was a nice dinner, a gift, or a good cry. It's important to honor your needs.

Monday, January 29, 2018

Review: Daring Greatly

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Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and LeadDaring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is one of those books that people have been telling me about and that I just didn't get around to until I launched into full self-improvement mode at the beginning of this year. I am so glad that I finally got around to reading Daring Greatly, or listening to it. This is one of those self-help books that highlights a lot of things that most of us understand intuitively with a few twists that perhaps we hadn't thought of.

Brene Brown's premise is that vulnerability is characterized as a sign of weakness in our society, but it is actually what makes it possible to be truly courageous; if there's nothing at stake, what's the risk? She carefully breaks down what vulnerability is and what it isn't, and how we can prepare ourselves for difficult conversations and cope with setbacks without compromising our own ability to connect with others in a genuine and compassionate way.

Brown draws from her own research as well as the research of famous psychologists like Kristin Neff to support a vision of a kinder, more connected, and more compassionate life. She also discusses how vulnerability can be an asset in the parenting relationship as well as work, not just life approach and intimate relationships. I think that cramming all of those settings into one book made some parts a bit repetitive and perhaps not as deep as some might like, but it's a good starting place for discussion.

I now recommend this book to all of my clients and friends.

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Sunday, January 28, 2018

Revisiting the Classics

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I've been hesitant to post reviews of old books on this blog for three reasons:

  1. As a writer, it's important to track what's in the current market and classics are not in our current market as contemporary work.
  2. Publishers want to see reviews of current books.
  3. We assume everyone already knows about classic books.
The first two statements are real problems, but the third I doubt. It seems like I find a lot of gaps out there among people, especially when it comes to the work of Steinbeck, Dickens, poetry, and short stories, in general.

So, just for fun, I'll be reviewing some classics through the month of February. If there is something in particular you're curious about, drop me a note in the comments. photo credit: simpleinsomnia Beautiful woman wearing a fancy outfit and holding a book via photopin (license)



Monday, December 11, 2017

Review Criteria: End of the Year Recap and Reflections

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Book reviews can be so subjective, and whenever we read a negative one, it's natural to wonder, "was the reviewer just in a crummy mood that day," or "maybe she just really hates this person," or "maybe she hates the world." My reviews are subjective because I read these books just like any reader might read them, and I have things that I like and dislike, just like any reader does. My likes and dislikes aren't going to be the same as those of all the other unique individuals out there, but for people who share my tastes and interests, my preferences can provide a good lense to help determine whether or not a book is worth their time. Given a certain someone's fairly, um, emotional reaction to a recent review, and that we're wrapping up 2017 (thank goodness!!!) this seems like a good time to go over what I look for in books and why.

Saturday, November 25, 2017

Six More Days of NaNoWriMo

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It feels kind of weird to make a point of telling just about everyone in my life that I need to drop everything and just focus on NaNoWriMo (unless I'm pausing to blog about my difficulties with NaNoWriMo, of course.) That said, I'm glad I've been doing that because it is so nice to give myself permission to just clear my brain space for writing as much as I possibly can this month. I would like to reach the 50,000 word goal, but at the moment, that seems impossible. I haven't even hit 25,000 yet. I do have good reasons for where I am now though, and I still have reasons to be hopeful that the project is still far from doomed. I thought some of this might be worth sharing if you're running out of gas like me.